i had a aquaintance stay with me rent free cause her husband left her and wanted a divorce. she had no car no money etc. i found her assistance, found her a car online and for the car i spent money on tires, oil change, tie rods etc. i bought them food and a pay as you go phone and paid her electricity. well the total came to 887.00$ i was cleaning the room i let her stay at in my house and there were boogers on my wall and the bathroom and shower weren't never clean. also the little girl who is 13 yrs old never did dishes or cleaned she told me she doesn't have to do that . that is what her mom is for. her mom told me i had to fix her something and watch her . the agreement was to put a roof over her head and get her on the way and i made her signed a contract be foreshe left. now she calls me wanting to use me to be the baby sitter and cook her kid a meal and i am looking for a job and she won't help me get one after people helped to get her one there at the airport.should i tell her
Should i be quiet or let her know?
yea id be pissed
i mean you helped her alot and she just used you like she deserved it
kudos for you for being such a good person
but unfortunatly thats how most people are
most people just take and act like you should be giving them stuff.....i would stand up and say %26quot;hey i did all this for you and you dont even say thankyou or help me%26quot;
just also have in mind that you are a much better person than her and down the road she wil have nothing and no friends and you will one day be happy and have alot of people who love you because you are a good giving friend who dosent damand things back
Should i be quiet or let her know?
id say listen sista!
i wont u out!
of course but tell her in a good way
Yes. You need to talk to her about all that junk that she is doing to you. Hold her accountable. That's what friends are for.
OK. Are you really as dumb as you sound or are you a troll? Kick the bitches *** to the curb!!!!
yes. what a ******* *****. she obviously has no respect for you so why should you care about her.
ummm...yah....don't just tell her...tell her off.
Seriously, open your mouth or people will continue to walk all over you--honey stop the craziness now! You sound like one of the good ole girls and let me tell you there IS a time not to be nice. Good Luck!
Yes and tell her good so that she understands and you need to say no and get on with your own life as you do not need her.
She's gone? Good. Count your blessings that you are only out less than a grand. Write her and the money off and move on. Next time she comes back hat in hand, send her on her way with no more than a %26quot;Sorry, I can't help you this time.%26quot;
she is using u very badly, tell her she needs to shape up or ship out she is working now, she can find her own place
You should ABSOLUTELY tell her EXACTLY what is on your mind. You did a VERY generous thing. I know I don't have almost a grand to spend on someone else! She should be very thankful for your generosity and she most definitely should have at LEAST helped keep the house clean. Sounds like she thought she was living in the lap of luxury and forgot someone else was doing all her dirty work.
I say send her on her way, tell her how you feel and let her finish her journey on her own.
Stop doing any thing for this so called friend and her brat. Give them a date to get out and stick to it. Tell them you can no longer afford to help them or to have them in your home. Tell them they have a week, a month, whatever to get the hell out and then do not mention it again. When the date comes if they are not gone, pack up their stuff and put it out and get your locks changed. Any thing else have it put in storage so they have no excuse to come back. If they come back or try to break in call the cops and have them arrested for trespassing. Tough problems call for tough solutions. This is no time for polite niceties.
Your being token advantage of. Tell her that you are not doing anything else for her, and see how fast her and her daughter change there tunes. She has to realize that you don't have to do anything for her. The 13 year old is disrespectful also. If she gets smart with you after you tell her no, she wasn't a real friend to begin with
ummm....ya!
tell her you are tired of her abusing your good deeds and you need to look after yourself first and then if her daughter learns some manners and how to do some housework, she can come stay with you again from time to time...til then, she needs to suck it up and be a mom...gah...those types of people are really my pet peeve.
yes u need to tell her but dont let anger get the best of you. just ask her if she realizes and appeaciates how much you did for her and ask her if she thinks shes being fair. maybe she s just used to doing what she wants but kindly let her know that ur not going to let her get the best of u.
Sounds like you got taken advantage of, worst of all by a friend. Don't offer any more help. If you need your money you spent on her, get all your proof together and take her to small claims court. I'm sorry this happened to you. It is people like her that make people regret helping others out of the kindness of their hearts. Tell her. And if she gets an attitude about it take her to court and when you get your money back, disassoiate yourself from her. Who needs friends like that?
Dear, you were used and if it was me, i put a end to it right now, so you lose a friend, believe me dear, friends like that you don't need, there are to many nice people out there. REMEMBER, WHEN YOU SAY %26quot; NO%26quot; MEAN IT and don't go back on your word. good luck my thought and prayers are with you.
People will use for as long as you let them. You are not the kids mother or even kin to them. She ain't doing nothing for you and you did all that for her and she ain't even a friend to you just your acquaintance. I would tell her how I feel. Seems to me she or her kids did not appreciate what you done for them. call her husband and tell him you see why he left her. LOL
You really need to tell her because you didn't have to open your home and heart to her or your child. She needs to be thankful for a friend like you. The way you say she left the house is just plain wrong. Just because her husband is leaving her and hurted her doesn't mean she has to treat you and others with disrespect. Go ahead and tell her how you feel and how she been treating you
